A few weeks ago Facebook was blowing up with commentary from Stacy Dash, Matt Walsh, and all these other conservative pages, about Boy Scout’s decision to include girls.
Most of the feedback ranged from, “Why can’t boys be boys and girls be girls?” to “America is going to hell, the transgender have indoctrinated even something as sacred as scouting.”
Nobody, in those articles about an article, cited the reason behind Boy Scout’s decision or their statement. But I received their statement first because I am a scout mom. It actually says, and I quote:
“Families today are busier and more diverse than ever. Most are dual-earners and there are more single-parent households than ever before , making convenient programs that serve the whole family more appealing. Additionally, many groups currently underserved by Scouting, including the Hispanic and Asian communities, prefer to participate in activities as a family. Recent surveys  of parents not involved with Scouting showed high interest in getting their daughters signed up for programs like Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts, with 90 percent expressing interest in a program like Cub Scouts and 87 percent expressing interest in a program like Boy Scouts. Education experts also evaluated the curriculum and content and confirmed relevancy of the program for young women.”
Regardless of how I feel about the position that they took (and I will share that in a minute), this was never – EVER – a push by the LGBT community. Because it was never designed to incorporate girls into boy scouting through some vague, androgynous definition of boy or girl.
So food for thought towards those who put their opinions of social media, as entitled to them as you are: you just slandered a massive organization composed of loving, invested parents such as my husband and myself.
The truth is many parents within the BSA had problems with this decision. Many parents in the very troops I’m involved with threw a fit because they don’t believe scouting should be co-ed. Likewise, I was also privately messaged by MANY moms not involved in scouting who told me, “My daughter has always wanted to join boy scouts. She is more into the stuff that they get to do.”
My feelings on the matter?
Thank you, Boy Scouts of America, for realizing how difficult it is on middle-class, working families, to drive one boy to cub scouts, one boy to boy scouts, and one girl to girl scouts. Thank you for being considerate of our time and not dividing our family up one more evening a week. Thank you for putting such high value on the family as a unit. Thank you for not being chauvinistic. Thank you for being more accessible to everyone else other than white families with a well-paid Dad. Thank you for turning the hearts of the fathers towards their daughters. Thank you for not being so sexist that you don’t feel the skills you teach your boys are equally important to girls as well. Thank you for creating a way for my husband and me to serve with all our children. Thanks for teaching boys to value and respect girls – because in doing so you are raising better brothers, boyfriends, husbands and dads… and less Brock Turners and Harvey Weinsteins.And mainly, THANK YOU that my daughter doesn’t have to “identify as a boy” or experience a transgender crisis because she’d rather hike and camp with the boys than play dolls with the girls. Thank you that she can be totally feminine, totally secure in her God-given gender and still reach the rank of Eagle Scout if she so chooses.
Logistically I don’t know how it will play out. I know per the Scouting Laws and Regulations that it doesn’t mean boys and girls will go camping together. For the most part, it seems the plan here in our local troops is to have different dens or patrols for girls and for boys. It will require a lot more manpower. It may totally flop! I don’t know.
I’m sticking with our Troop’s Director, who said: “What are we telling our girls if we expend more family resources supporting a boy in BSA? All that said, boys do not do well with the distraction of girls, especially before 16. On the flip side, having a wholesome venue for boys and girls of similar values to interact around a common purpose is not bad, and in fact may be a real benefit. As I see it, it all boils down to two questions. 1. To what degree will integration be required. 2. Will traditional views regarding God given gender differences and roles be supported or at least tolerated.” The rest is really to be continued…