I thought I was so smart when I made my daughter flash cards to memorize her multiplication tables. Then my feelings were completely hurt when she wasn’t learning anything from holding them in her hands for 30 minutes at a time.
My daughter is an Auditory learner. In part due to vision problems she had from Kindergarten through 2nd grade, which required vision therapy and kept her from successfully being able to read and write. Vision therapy helped strengthen the nerves around her eyes and now she reads and writes just fine.
That doesn’t mean that she’s a visual learner though. It just means she can read and write.
Her memory is directly linked to what she hears – specially what she hears in her own voice. And this can be such a tough type of kid to teach because most public school curriculum is visual, and a lot of the homeschooling curriculum is kinesthetic (which works too, but only in some things). So what do I use?
I get audio books for the books she’s supposed to read that are a bit too thick. Our Library has the Overdrive app which allows us to borrow audio books directly to our phone! Audible is a good source too. And a good old fashioned trip to the Library for some CDs to play in the van work great too. When we had long days in the van, driving everywhere, we listened to stories narrated by Jim Weiss. Celtic Tales. A Tale of Two Cities. The Three Musketeers. My kids know a lot of the classics from listening to this on the go.
It also means that we do better having conversations about history and science than making her write it or fill out worksheets. Specially if I want her to remember key points.
Auditory math feels like watching paint dry. I’m glad I use manipulatives for this, and she’s actually able to keep up visually for the most part. But when it came to memorizing her time tables, which is just plain boring memorization, she couldn’t do it on her own.
For this, I sat down and talked her through the time tables. I started with 2s and 3s, and then I would give her an answer and ask her what time table gave her that number (example: 18 = 2×9 and 3×6). We sit together for thirty minutes and go back and forth on them, and if she’s confused, I ask her to say the correct fact four times back to back. Now she’s learned up to her 5s.
Key issue for memorization: You have to sound confident. Your brain has to hear you say it like you know it. You can’t memorize questions or doubts. If you sound like you don’t really know, what your brain will remember is that feeling of “I don’t really know”.
Bible verses? Read them out loud often. Lines to recite for a play? Record yourself saying them and play it back!
At this point someone would ask me: How do I know I have an auditory learner?
- Does your child make songs out of everything?
- Do you hear your child talk to herself during play?
- Can she pick up a rhythm or hum a melody she just heard?
- Does your child have a prosecuting attorney-like ability to quote you on something you said? Maybe even weeks ago? When you weren’t even talking to her?
- Does your child pick up on words or phrases she hears others say?
- Does your child like it when you read out loud?
Then these are hints that she might be an auditory learner. They’re very musical.
I just learned to use her strength in her favor instead of beating the dead horse over concepts that she just wouldn’t memorize fresh off the text book.
I also have a kinesthetic learner (movement/wiggly butt) and a visual learner. It spreads me out in my homeschooling day! Between learning styles AND difference in grade levels, every child is almost always working individually on all subjects.
What would you say is your learning style? Can you remember things you read? Do you learn songs very quickly? Or do you prefer to be hands-on to understand how things work? Share below!